Trauma Therapy in
California
Support for understanding survival patterns, rebuilding safety, and reconnecting with parts of yourself shaped by trauma.
Trauma Therapy for Adults and Teens
Trauma is not always one clearly defined event. It can also develop through repeated experiences of instability, criticism, emotional neglect, discrimination, family conflict, or having to grow up before you were ready.
You may not describe what happened as trauma. You may simply notice that you overthink everything, struggle to trust yourself, shut down during conflict, feel responsible for other people’s emotions, or stay prepared for something to go wrong, even when life appears calm.
I provide online trauma therapy throughout California and in-person therapy in Eagle Rock, Los Angeles. Together, we can understand the survival patterns that helped you get through difficult experiences and begin creating responses that fit the life you are living now.
What Trauma Can Look Like
The effects of trauma are not always obvious. They can appear in your relationship with yourself, your body, and the people around you.
You might notice:
Scanning other people’s moods and adjusting yourself to keep the peace
People-pleasing, over-functioning, fawning, or feeling responsible for everyone
Freezing, shutting down, or losing access to your words during conflict
Anxiety, hypervigilance, or difficulty allowing yourself to rest
Hyper-independence or discomfort relying on other people
Shame, self-doubt, or difficulty trusting your own perceptions
Feeling emotionally numb, disconnected, or far away from yourself
Guilt when setting boundaries or prioritizing your own needs
Difficulty feeling safe, secure, or fully present in relationships
These responses are not evidence that something is wrong with you. They are often ways your nervous system learned to protect you.
How Trauma Therapy Can Help
Trauma therapy is not about forcing you to relive the past, uncover memories, forgive someone, or move on before you are ready.
Our work focuses on helping you understand how past experiences continue to shape your reactions in the present. As those patterns become clearer, we work toward helping you feel more grounded, make choices from a place of self-trust, and respond to your life rather than automatically reacting from survival mode.
Healing does not mean pretending that what happened was acceptable. It means the past no longer has to determine how you see yourself, what you tolerate, or how safe you are allowed to feel.
What Trauma Therapy With Me Looks Like
My approach is trauma-informed, relational, and culturally responsive. We pay attention to what happened, but also to the family, cultural, relational, and systemic environments in which your survival patterns developed.
Sessions are collaborative and paced with care. We may begin by building awareness of your nervous system, strengthening grounding skills, and identifying what helps you feel present and supported. You are never expected to disclose everything at once or “perform healing” for me.
Depending on your needs, I may integrate EMDR, somatic awareness, and other trauma-informed approaches. EMDR is one possible tool, not a requirement, and we decide together what feels appropriate.
The goal is not to remove every difficult feeling. It is to help you develop a greater sense of safety, choice, connection, and trust in yourself.
Who I Work With
I provide online and in-person trauma therapy for adults and teens, with a focus on supporting:
First-generation, Latine, and BIPOC clients
LGBTQ+ individuals
People affected by childhood or family-related trauma
Clients navigating cultural expectations, identity-based stress, or discrimination
People working through relational trauma, emotional neglect, or long-standing survival patterns
Anyone who is tired of being the strong one while struggling quietly underneath
About Working Together
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California, trained in EMDR and grounded in trauma-informed, culturally responsive care.
My work is shaped by both clinical training and lived experience. I understand that trauma does not occur in a vacuum: identity, culture, family roles, relationships, and systems all influence what we learn to carry and what we believe we must do to feel safe or worthy.
You do not need to have the perfect words or know exactly where to begin. We can start with what is affecting you now and build understanding together.
If you are looking for trauma therapy in California that is grounded, relational, and paced with care, I invite you to reach out.
You do not have to keep carrying it alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
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No. You do not need a formal diagnosis or even certainty that what you experienced “counts” as trauma to seek support. Trauma therapy can help when past experiences continue to affect your emotions, relationships, body, or sense of safety. We can begin with what you are noticing now without forcing a label onto your experience.
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Trauma therapy is a broader approach focused on understanding and healing the effects of overwhelming experiences. It may include talking, noticing patterns, building nervous-system regulation, developing self-trust, and strengthening relationships. EMDR is one structured method that may be incorporated into trauma therapy when it fits your needs. You do not have to use EMDR to work with me on trauma.
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You do not need a complete or perfectly organized memory of your past to benefit from trauma therapy. We can work with what is present now- such as body reactions, emotions, beliefs, relationship patterns, or triggers, without pressuring you to recover memories or fill in missing details. The goal is to help you feel safer and more connected to yourself in the present.